My BF and I don't know where to have our wedding.

I, (F24), and my boyfriend (M25) have been talking about marriage recently, and we came across a difficult decision. We have no clue where to have this wedding. My bf and I have decided that we both would like a party, something small with family and friends, so eloping is off the table, but I am from Hawaii, and he is from Alberta, CA. As you can see, kinda far. We are currently long-distance, but I plan to move there next year. BUT the problem is that if we get married in Canada, my family is now forced to fly up there, and my family does not have a whole lot of money to be able to go all the way over there. The same problem applies if we got married in Hawaii. Now, the only answer that was decent enough for us was to have it in a whole different place, so the inconvenience is, well, equal, but that still feels... wrong. BASICALLY, I have no idea if we have any other options. I know that we both have time to think about it, but last time we talked about it, he seemed genuinely bummed that we couldn't find another way. Help pls!