Community $upport isn’t free

Whomever quoted “ The best things in life are free” was either homeless or a comedian using sarcasm clearly referring to non tangible acts like love,friendship & loyalty. In the adult xxx industry the majority of success comes with a fee. From the greedy overly priced websites(tsescorts /eros,ect) who constantly likes to r__pe their advertisers in the 🍑 with no lube to the photographers, your transportation, your Uber, your personal security ,your incall hotel/residence/office …….everyone every entity that plays a part in your success in this business comes with a fee.

Community $upport is the fee. It’s being brought to my attention through various posts & even a few PM s from SWers/clients/ hobbyists….requests, inquiries, advice,ect. That some of y’all haven’t got the memo of how this works. Few examples of various posts & pMs are as follows:

“Bitch I need to make money NoW !! Don’t be shady ! HELP me!”

“Yo how do u find a tranny ho with a big ass dick& tits that’s under $100?”

“ how do I start escorting? Girls send me all your dates wit big $$$ & all the websites you advertise on to make the most $$”

Ok I’ll say what everybody else is too scared to say. GOOGLE & ChatGPT are resources freely accessible and available at your fingertips. No one owes you access to their contacts,advice & other wise highly sensitive information that some of us vets have had to work & put in the time & effort for. I’ve seen a common recurring pattern hobbyists/clients in comments asking to see content from a provider in the thread & once she suggests that he can subscribe to view. Crickets & pure silence. There is a guy whom I disagreed with recently in a post who decided to PM me to continue the debate & then demand me to coach him on what he’s doing wrong cuz he doesn’t know any trans people besides escorts to which I suggested that a generous tip for the amount of time & effort I’m going to dedicate to helping him will be highly appreciated. Again . Crickets & silence. A lot of individuals seem to come in this subreddit with a huge sense of entitlement with 0000000 years of experience, knowledge & or education expecting resources to be given to them FREELY just off Gp. No mam’. No sir. I don’t know u like that and furthermore, the oldest profession in the world did not become the oldest profession in the world by just giving its resources away freely to every tom, Dick”, Harry and Larry. Da f%#k

I’ve spoken with a few of the mods  & we all agree that a community that can’t $upport itself is  a community destined to fail. In simple terms….. the majority of the resources/ info/advice is openly accessible to anyone who wants to venture down the rabbit hole & do so on their own. Whether that be through a post, yt video or online discord of some sort. However this were the issue starts with most individuals who rather  not be involved with the time & energy to do this aka the hard wrk .  Hence, they will PM me, another well experienced SWer , a mod or a general post expecting to receive miracles matches & mega millions but  will generally receive…yep …crickets & silence . 

 Speaking for most individuals I just mentioned… when & if you decide to ask for that advice , resources, high sensitive information or suggestions that you WILL NOT find on the net  at all….pls be considerate  of the person helping you by tipping or gifting that individual for their resources/ time & effort that are dedicating to you . And NO  don’t nobody want no damn premium Reddit or points bs !   You can offer to tip them and ask where &would they prefer to be gifted or tipped. Or you can check their profile to see if they have options available. For example My cash app &  my Amazon wishlist is directly on my profile for the public to view or donate .  I would imagine that most people would have that type of information on their profile especially if you’re a SWer. ( see that’s a freebie of important info you didn’t know. You’re welcome 🤗)I m good at my craft & that’s not a talking point or narcissistic bragging rights. I’m a highly skilled culture navigator with over 2136 pts in Reddit karma in addition to over 15 years of experience,verified & searchable content,reviews to validate my expertise in the field of the xxx content industry& beyond . Also tipping/ gifting is 100% voluntary & solely at the discretion of each individual.  THIS IS NOT $$ for meetups or xxx work ! This is strictly for online /video conferencing,culture navigation/tips/resource sharing / community $upport. Not a requirement just a friendly recommendation. Likewise, this  also applies to the person/community you are requesting info or resources from to withhold if  one decides not to tip or gift . 

In conclusion, I hope this doesn’t come off as aggressive or arrogant. This is simply meant to create healthy structure and dialogue while  separating  the fly by night dreamers from the serious go-getters who truly desire success in this business. Btw generally speaking… the things least valued are often free. Look it how people are so disposable with music, entertainment, 15 mins of viral fame internet stars,porn, WNBA season tickets, anything from a library including the library itself,,ect.  Need I say less.