What should i do. I am stucked

20 M. In a relationship with 19F with almost 5 years. Things are fine from outside but i don't see her efforts. I literally do anything to everything for her. Cooking foods for her in her mood swings buying a lot of chocolates. Spending alot on her paying bills everytime. The only thing that i want is her effort. :). Bhai mai agar gussa hou to muze manane ki jagah khud gussa ho jaati h. It's so irritating. I am just left blank. She is just never available for me when i wants her. 🙂