40 [M4F] #SanJose CA #BayArea - older guy looking for more than a hookup, wanting a deeper connection

Part of me just wants to hookup and have sex but another part of me wants to get to know a girl first to see if there's potential for more than that. I'm thinking to start with a hookup, move on to FWB, and leave the door open to see how deep of a connection we'll have. It would be nice if the sexual intimacy turned into feelings if closeness.