22 [M4F] #UK #Anywhere - inexperienced guy looking for inexperienced kinky childfree life partner and travel companion aged 18-22
This is a very long and perhaps slightly incoherent post, so please bear with me! Please make sure you read it all before you reach out, if you decide to.
About Me:
- I'm 22 and live in the UK, specifically in the home counties just outside of London.
- I'm childfree by choice and plan to get a vasectomy in the near future. Once I'm sterile, I'll be getting it tested every six months to be safe.
- I'm 5'10"/178 (179 maybe?) cm.
- I’m currently searching for a new job as my temp job has gone a bit slow. I have a Computer Science degree, and my long-term goal is to be a software engineer, currently I'm just building projects and working on my CV so i can start job hunting. I would not consider myself very career-oriented; while I want to do well for myself, I definitely value work-life balance the most.
- I'm neurodivergent and quite introverted. I definitely value my quiet time, although I can be quite outgoing as well. I'd say I'm quite laid back and I have very little tolerance for things like yelling when it comes to a relationship at least so I'd like to say I'm good at communicating and working things out.
- I'm financially literate and responsible with money, I hope to eventually retire early in the future.
- I'm an atheist.
- I like to travel. I haven't done too much yet, but I've been to seven countries, mostly in Europe. I've also been to the US. I plan to do a lot more travelling in the future all over the world.
- My long term goal is to live in a big city.
- I'm a kinky person. I have a very high sex drive and like to be dominant sexually. Admittedly, I am a virgin, so quite inexperienced, but I do have some experience. Specific things I'm into, which I have experience with, are facefucking, throatpies, and rimming (both giving and receiving). Things I don't have experience with but want to try are anal, cockwarming, etc. Ideally I'd like to wait until ive had a vasectomy to start having proper sex, I'm not really into ropes or anything like that, and I'm certainly not into degrading anyone or anything that would be considered "mean" like face slapping or anything.
- I'm very affectionate. I can't get enough of cuddles, and one of my love languages is definitely words of affirmation. I'll absolutely tell you I love you constantly, compliment you, etc.
- I'm into some nerdy stuff. I like video games, although I don't play them as much as I used to. I'm a big Star Wars fan and a big horror movie fan.
- I'm open to getting married eventually; however, I absolutely do not want to have a wedding. I know that's a bit forward to say right away, but I just want to make sure I'm not wasting anyone's time if that's something that's important to them.
What I'm Looking For:
- You're aged 18-22 and live in the UK or anywhere else in the world and are open to living in a big city in the future, You’re open to relocating to me, I’m also open to relocating as well, whatever we decide is best.
- You're firmly childfree (you do not have or ever want to have children). If you have undergone sterilisation or are planning on it in the future, that is a big plus but it's not a hard requirement.
- I'm open to people of any body type.
- I’m open to people of any race or ethnicity.
- You are not very family oriented.
- You are non-religious/atheist.
- You don't smoke or take drugs.
- You have a very high sex drive, just like me, are sexually submissive, and into the same kinks as I am. I'm looking for someone who has minimal/no experience like me and wants to explore and grow together. I'm more than happy to guide you on the things I have experience with if you need and, of course, to explore new things together.
- Ideally, you're also introverted like me.
- Like me, you're open to getting married in the future but also don't want a wedding/don't care about having one.
- You have a calm personality and are a good communicator, as I said before I really do not like yelling in relationships so I'm looking for the type of relationship where we can just discuss everything calmly and work things out if we have an issue.
- If you're also neurodivergent, that would be cool as maybe that could be something we could connect on; however, if you're not, that's also fine.
- You are also a very affectionate person.
- You like to travel or want to in the future if you haven't done any travelling already, you’re open to longer periods of travelling in the future.
- You're financially literate or are open to learning so that we can work on building wealth and retiring early together.
I hope I've touched on everything here. If you're interested in talking and getting to know each other, then please send me a chat, and tell me a bit about yourself. I’m happy to exchange pictures relatively early. I can't wait to hear from you!
Posted Sep 7, 2025, 10:25 PM UTC · locked
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