Marriage
Asalamo alaikum
My dear brothers and sisters, I would like to seek your advice and help. Alhamdulillah, I try to stay firm on my deen. Lately, I have started to feel that my chances of marriage may be blocked due to black magic.
I have noticed that some families have shown interest in me, and even considered me as a potential wife for their sons, but it never goes any further. Many times I have received clear signs of interest, yet none of them have taken the step to formally ask for my hand in marriage.
For example, my cousin and his family were once very eager and even asked for my hand, but now they have turned to look for someone else for him. (Not that I wanted to marry my cousin, but just the fact that it was once so serious, and then suddenly stopped, made me overthink the situation.)
I know I am still young, and marriage is in Allah’s hands and timing, but I cannot help feeling that something may be blocking the process. I even have a suspicion of who could be behind this, though may Allah forgive me if I am wrong.
What should I do to break this blockage before it is too late? And who should I seek help from regarding this matter?
Posted Sep 7, 2025, 10:34 PM UTC