How can we spice up the bedroom?

My bf isn’t ready to have regular sex yet because of trauma so we’ve been having oral or he uses his hands. I’m getting antsy so we talked about it yesterday and he thinks by the end of the year he should be ready. In the meantime I need new ideas on things to try, I’m open to any suggestions and he is too. Kinky, not kinky, but nothing with a third+ person. TIA if anyone has advice!