Lost a very good potential sub - very sad

I haven‘t been around many scammers lately, but rather subs that show great potential but either ghost or this time, he deleted his profile. I always bring up the topic of leaving and beeing unsure when I talk to someone new, trying to avoid such things, I don’t demand tribute right away for a first talk to see if we match, because I want them to trust me in the future. For any reason this one potential vanishing hit me harder than I thought, Im quite sad about it.