I may have done something horrible… please help.
Hello. I am 17M and I am very frightened that I may have coerced someone via discord.
This started at when I was 15, and my friend put me on with this girl on discord. We started talking and eventually started flirting. kinky flirting. Embarrassingly enough she would lead on the kinky flirting. She would call me things like “Good boy” or call me “submissive.“ and stuff like that. I eventually asked If I could see her breasts, since we were already flirting like that so I thought it would be okay. Which she says no later, but I believe shortly after she sent a suggestive body pic unannounced, but quickly deletes. I asked if she could resend, and she said later. Now I did ask her please if she could resend initially before she said later. Then according to the DMS. I get in the shower. She tells me to draw a anime character, and I do and then I ask if she can resend the body picture. She replies “hmmmmm” in a suggestive way, and they I replied with I’ll beg. (I was freaked out for whatever reason). Which she replies “Oh?” and then goes ahead and resends, and then deletes it after. I was distraught, but then I asked if I could see her bare breasts. She says no. I asked why, and she just says cause “nuh uh”. After that I really just stopped asking her for anything sexual in general, and we just slowly stopped talking over time.
In my 15 year old brain I wasn’t really thinking or trying to cause harm, but that doesn’t matter, so please tell me if I coerced her or not. I feel so disgusted at himself and just downright horrible.
I never tried to threaten her out of anything or emotionally manipulate her, but still I was asking to see stuff.
Posted Sep 11, 2025, 4:54 PM UTC