popping on to say some stuff

hey uhhhh this is all still super new and experimental (i mean, this was not even actually supposed to be the official account)

-I have been sick about a week now (it started when i was in withdrawal , but is unrelated to the withdrawal) i still am, i am okay, i just hope it helps explain lack of activity/if you do interact and my behavior is a tad strange (stranger than usual)

-i still cannot get to every message! I want to let you guys know that im not trying to ghost or ignore you! i just get a lot of messages on here, and yes, i do still interact with posts even if my inbox has unread messages. (advertising the product i guess?)

if you really 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑦 want to chat (this will also earn you some good points with us tbh) message u/YourHolograph :)

-but i want to say i do have a few rules

please don't be a dick!

im not into people just being blatantly mean and I've had a handful of people (a very small amount compared to the kind people though 🥹) who decided to say some hurtful stuff.

i hope addressing it doesn't make it worse but i just want to say that no, i do not like being called ugly. i don't like it when someone asks me to take myself apart and analyze my insecurities. please don't compare me to others/make me compare myself to others.

CNC and kink set aside, i don't have stable mental health. It can be a very, very thin line separating "im having fun :D" to "im like..not okay"

i believe in communication and if im talking to you, i will give you at LEAST one warning of "hey, im not comfortable with this" and depending on what it is, i am not going to be super strict about it. it's not "OK COOL TWO YOURE DONE". kink means creating a space to feel safe and comfy being filthy.

listen. im into cnc and conabuse. i am into condescenscion. maybe subtle degradation but not just..degrading. please dont be an asshole.

there are plenty of things to pick apart about me that i am chill with.

also, please do not call me fat. not chubby either please. especially if i say i am insecure about it. (busty is ok. voluptuous, that's okay. i prefer weight related stuff not be a topic, i an dealing with some health issues that i could provide horrifying details about, but ill spare you haha.) please do not try to make me feel terrible about my burn scar. I don't hate that about myself. however, i don't want that last sentence to turn into "i dont hate that about myself YET"

this was a prompted post. the person is blocked now. but yeah, if your goal was to get to me, you did. i don't find it funny. It isn't cool. anyway, please don't be jerks.

if you made it this far, i applaud and deeply thank you. message me a fun fact about rabbits + your favorite color! and i promise, you'll be someone i want to message back. I will be able to better find you in the sea of messages. i'll know you're soneone who is willing to take the time to read sonething i wrote 🥹

most of you have been fun to interact with. thank you.