How did you make friend?

General Question

Lately, I’ve seen a lot of people posting about not having friends or making progress, and I realised that’s kind of me, too. I try saying hi, joining group work, and talking to people, but it feels like nothing comes out of it. You talk, they reply, and that’s it. It’s frustrating.

I’m not saying I don’t have any friends, but I want some on campus and in my major. Most of the friends I’ve made since moving here are from work or online, good for partying and doing very bad stuff, but I want that “uni” kind of friendship, too. Like what you see on the school posters or banners, I want to chill on campus, play soccer, grab a coffee, watch movies, and just do normal white people stuff together.

I don't know what happened to me, but when I try to engage friendly people, they tend to ignore me. However, when I'm nonchalant or or grumpy face , people tend to stick around me longer.???? Like do they empathy me? Does they think I'm a retarded that I need special need? Does it only happen to me? Does it happen to you?

Posted Sep 11, 2025, 4:58 PM UTC

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