Hate having friends who don't realize they are whiteboys

It's so frustrating having so many whiteboy friends who just doesn't know their place and who they are. Like I'm certain they would become perfect whiteboys but it is so hard to introduce the truth without scaring them away.

I know they would be happier joining the bnwo, embracing who they are and letting their girlfriends be free to enjoy themselves for once. I see my old self in them and I wish I could help them out but don't know how. For selfish reasons it would also be nice to have an irl friend who share my values I suppose, but I mostly want them to be happy.