27 [M4F] - Inexperienced geek looking for a long-term online FWB

NSFWConversation - long-term

Hi there!

(Currently at work as I'm posting this so please keep that in mind)

I’m not the best at putting myself out there but I thought I’d give this another go. I have been feeling lonely for some time and miss having a genuine connection with someone. Where we're able to joke around, laugh at dumb stuff, and have fun/deep conversations, but also be able to make each other feel craved/desired in heated moments. But to be honest, I struggle a bit with body insecurities/self-esteem, and it makes me hesitant when it comes to the dating market. I was hoping to meet a woman online, who I ultimately vibe with, and who’d be interested in exploring a bit sexually down the line. I guess you can say I’m looking for a long-term online FWB, who values the friends part as much as the benefits. I don't know, maybe I'm just the oddball here but I just feel like this sort of thing is only fulfilling with someone you have a meaningful connection with, so if you're looking for a one time thing, I am not for you. If it works out, great! If it doesn't, I'd still be open to making new friends.

Here's a bit about me: I'm a 27 years old, Latino, with an average build. I am likely shorter than you, if not your height so I hope that's not an issue. Personality-wise, I've always been more on the gentle/introverted side and I'm a bit socially awkward so while I am trying to work on coming out of my shell, please be patient with me. Aside from that, I'd like to think I'm funny at times, loyal, kind-hearted, and easy-going. What else. I value honest and open communication. I'm definitely more of a homebody, but I do love going out every now and then. Especially with the right company. My main love languages are Quality Time and Words of Affirmation. I typically spend my free time enjoying anime/manga, working out, or gaming with my friends. Other things I like include martial arts, drawing, Pokémon, Star Wars, stuff like that! Sexually speaking, I am a switch. A bit more submissive-leaning if you asked me but we could talk more about it if you bring it up.

I typically love women who are cute and sweet, and who also loves all the heart-warming lovey dovey stuff like hugs, kisses, and cuddling (even though we're online). Someone who's understanding and can be patient with me, and who would also enjoy spending time with me as much as I would with them. Aside from being a genuine person, I don't really think there's much else. Aside from being a genuine person, I am pretty open minded about body type. Tall, short, chubby, skinny. I care more about how well we vibe with each other, so the more interested you seem in wanting to chat, the more I'm going to enjoy talking to you. I'm also pretty open-minded about age and location.

I'm not perfect and I am not expecting you to be, but if you're looking for something similar and I seem like someone you'd get along with, feel free to reach out and let's see if we click. Anyways, thank you for staying until the end and I hope you enjoy the rest of your day!

Posted Sep 11, 2025, 5:01 PM UTC · locked

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