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marygracemgmg

Talking to an addict

Motivation

So I had to put up a boundary with a new friend who is in active addiction..I dont want to see her for a few months.. I think that she was using me for transportation..

...plus Im in Al-Anon for my sister, and am learning the steps..

I just checked in with the new friend in active addiction via text. No plans to chill but a "hey how are you?", ..and Im not stressing over the outcome. ...I sent love, and have no expectations. Maybe someone will do that for my sister, but maybe someone else needs it more.

It's so weird how addiction affects others.. . But I'm grateful to learn more about human relationships , even if its through this disease. 

Hope everyone is well today.

Posted Sep 11, 2025, 5:03 PM UTC

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