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Gay4HotGirls

Trans discrimination?? πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ

Hey, I'm a teen figuring ms out. I thought about who I am and my sexuality. I'm a born female lesbian. Is it fair to trans people if I only date born females? Like if your a mtf I wouldn't date you, and if you where a ftm I wouldn't either.

Am I being a bitch if I only date girls who where born a girl? I have found many girls/women attractive but never a man and fidn myself skipping over fxm sex of kiss scenes in my show, same for mxm. I hate the idea of being with a man in the slightly sexual way. Don't get me wrong, my best friend is a male, and I love him like my brother. It's just a sexual thing with presenting males or born males (sorry if that's the wrong term for trans)

Also, I see myself as poly sexual. Meaning I like certain genders, I find non-binary people attractive, only if I know they are born male. I seem unable to know if I find the person attractive unless I know there born gender.

If you don't get that, here's what I mean;

Me + born female, presenting female βœ…

Me + born female, presenting male ❌

Me + born female, presenting non-binary βœ… Me + born male, presenting female ❌

Me + born male, presenting male ❌

Me + born male, presenting non-binary❌

So if your non-binary and don't LOOK male or female, but I like you, I won't know if I'm attracted to you untill I know your born gender. Am I being a bitch and discriminating on trans? I DONT MEAN TO I LOVE TRANS PEOPLE πŸ’™πŸ©·πŸ€πŸ©·πŸ’™

Posted Sep 11, 2025, 5:03 PM UTC

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