31 [M4A] Found evidence today my wife was cheating on me a couple years ago. And I'm turned on.

Confused, but mostly turned on. I've been into cuck and cheating porn before but this is new. I have fantasized about her with others, but seeing it and some of the things she was sending has my mind racing. Would love to chat about it and maybe get some perspective based on what I saw and how to move forward. Definitely welcome others who have been in similar situations. Torn about confronting her or keeping it a dirty secret. Dms open to all 18+ and any gender, start with ASL and why you're interested.