25M | London | Manifesting someone who laughs at my bad jokes
Hola
This is not ChatGPT. This is me—Mr. X.
TL;DR
25-year-old guy looking for a life partner.
If I had to describe myself: confident, strong, independent, and someone with a great sense of humor. Born and brought up in the central part of Tamil Nadu, spent the last couple of years in Bengaluru, and have been in London for a little over a year now.
Personal Details
Initials: Mr. X
Age: 25
Height: 5'7
Religion: Hindu
Caste (if applicable): Mudaliyar
Earnings (INR): I work for FAANG — definitely above average
Marital Status: Unmarried
Living with Parents: No
Location:
- Region: London
- Country: UK
- Mother Tongue: Tamil (Also fluent in Hindi — perks of working with Hindi-speaking folks)
- Plan to Return to India: Not planning to move back for the next 10 years (waiting for FIRE). Open to relocating to California if needed.
Education and Profession
Education Level: B.E (Top-tier state university, if that matters)
Occupation: Software Engineer at FAANG
Diet Preferences
Diet: Vegetarian by choice for the last 15 years. (vegan on and off.) Open to eating non-veg as well.
Family Details
Family Background:
We’re a middle-class family of four. Traditional with moderate values. Father and brother run small businesses. Mom is a homemaker.
Additional Information
What I Bring to the Table
- Hobbies: Gym, running, fishing (yes, a vegan who enjoys fishing lol), and cooking
- I strive to make you laugh. I'm emotionally available and supportive.
- I remember and celebrate small things — like work anniversaries — and I try to plan at least one day trip every month.
- I'm disciplined and working on being more organized.
- Good at decision-making and not afraid of taking risks when it comes to skills, education, investments, and job changes.
- If you're into Tamil oratory, politics, economics, international relations, or geography — we’ll have amazing conversations.
- Financially on track to FIRE by 35 — investments in real estate, new house, FAANG stocks, pension, etc.
- I'm not chasing promotions or job-hopping right now — just focusing on health, fitness, and personal growth.
- I don’t drink or smoke (not into anything that harms me or my health).
- [Not a flex] I deeply understand family values, money, and frugality — I grew up in a single-room home, went to government schools, and now work for FAANG.
Partner Preferences
I expect my partner to:
- Show love and affection — I’ll give at least 200% more than I receive
- Not drink (or drink occasionally — like once or twice a year. Of course, I’ll join you)
- Be maximum 8/10 in appearance (appearance doesn't matters much — but being honest. If you’re >8, You're out of my league. Just being real. TODO for Mr. X: work on self)
- Be street-smart, decisive, and not afraid to question the status quo
- Preferably be working and financially independent
Other Notes:
- No pressure about living with my parents — I’m not returning to India for the next 10 years. Even after that, my parents will likely stay in our hometown while we’ll be in a metro city.
- No pressure about hobbies — if you have some, I’ll join; if not, we’ll figure it out.
Ideal Partner Profile
- Desired Religion: Hindu-Indian (South preferred, North works too — lets make Two States Part 2?)
- Desired Caste: Open to all
- Age: ≤26
- Height: N/A
- Location Preferences: N/A
- Diet Preferences: N/A
- Education Level: Graduate/Postgraduate
- Occupation: Open to various professions, preferably tech, finance, or management
- Desired Earnings (INR): N/A
- Living with Parents: No issues
- Marital Status: Never married
- Wants Kids after Marriage: Yes — preferably 2
Contact Information
Preferred Contact Method: Private messaging on Reddit
Posted Sep 13, 2025, 11:38 AM UTC