25M | London | Manifesting someone who laughs at my bad jokes

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Hola
This is not ChatGPT. This is me—Mr. X.

TL;DR

25-year-old guy looking for a life partner.
If I had to describe myself: confident, strong, independent, and someone with a great sense of humor. Born and brought up in the central part of Tamil Nadu, spent the last couple of years in Bengaluru, and have been in London for a little over a year now.

Personal Details

Initials: Mr. X
Age: 25
Height: 5'7
Religion: Hindu
Caste (if applicable): Mudaliyar
Earnings (INR): I work for FAANG — definitely above average
Marital Status: Unmarried
Living with Parents: No
Location:

  • Region: London
  • Country: UK
  • Mother Tongue: Tamil (Also fluent in Hindi — perks of working with Hindi-speaking folks)
  • Plan to Return to India: Not planning to move back for the next 10 years (waiting for FIRE). Open to relocating to California if needed.

Education and Profession

Education Level: B.E (Top-tier state university, if that matters)
Occupation: Software Engineer at FAANG

Diet Preferences

Diet: Vegetarian by choice for the last 15 years. (vegan on and off.) Open to eating non-veg as well.

Family Details

Family Background:
We’re a middle-class family of four. Traditional with moderate values. Father and brother run small businesses. Mom is a homemaker.

Additional Information

What I Bring to the Table

  • Hobbies: Gym, running, fishing (yes, a vegan who enjoys fishing lol), and cooking
  • I strive to make you laugh. I'm emotionally available and supportive.
  • I remember and celebrate small things — like work anniversaries — and I try to plan at least one day trip every month.
  • I'm disciplined and working on being more organized.
  • Good at decision-making and not afraid of taking risks when it comes to skills, education, investments, and job changes.
  • If you're into Tamil oratory, politics, economics, international relations, or geography — we’ll have amazing conversations.
  • Financially on track to FIRE by 35 — investments in real estate, new house, FAANG stocks, pension, etc.
  • I'm not chasing promotions or job-hopping right now — just focusing on health, fitness, and personal growth.
  • I don’t drink or smoke (not into anything that harms me or my health).
  • [Not a flex] I deeply understand family values, money, and frugality — I grew up in a single-room home, went to government schools, and now work for FAANG.

Partner Preferences

I expect my partner to:

  • Show love and affection — I’ll give at least 200% more than I receive
  • Not drink (or drink occasionally — like once or twice a year. Of course, I’ll join you)
  • Be maximum 8/10 in appearance (appearance doesn't matters much — but being honest. If you’re >8, You're out of my league. Just being real. TODO for Mr. X: work on self)
  • Be street-smart, decisive, and not afraid to question the status quo
  • Preferably be working and financially independent

Other Notes:

  • No pressure about living with my parents — I’m not returning to India for the next 10 years. Even after that, my parents will likely stay in our hometown while we’ll be in a metro city.
  • No pressure about hobbies — if you have some, I’ll join; if not, we’ll figure it out.

Ideal Partner Profile

  • Desired Religion: Hindu-Indian (South preferred, North works too — lets make Two States Part 2?)
  • Desired Caste: Open to all
  • Age: ≤26
  • Height: N/A
  • Location Preferences: N/A
  • Diet Preferences: N/A
  • Education Level: Graduate/Postgraduate
  • Occupation: Open to various professions, preferably tech, finance, or management
  • Desired Earnings (INR): N/A
  • Living with Parents: No issues
  • Marital Status: Never married
  • Wants Kids after Marriage: Yes — preferably 2

Contact Information

Preferred Contact Method: Private messaging on Reddit

Posted Sep 13, 2025, 11:38 AM UTC

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