42 [M4F] #Bristol - #UK - Sadist seeking masochist

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I won’t beat around the bush. I like being rough. More than like it, I crave it, like a vampire craves blood. I can’t picture myself having an intimate relationship without it. Does that mean I don’t know how to show care and affection? Of course not, I love showering my partner with it, however I love the duality of being a sadist to her in the bedroom, then treating her like a princess outside of it.

Cuddles, romantic dinners, going out for walks, all of that normal couple stuff I would expect on top of the BDSM aspects.

This post is really for two people, either of which I would be happy contacting me.

  1. The Masochist. The girl who is only interested in my dark side. Who wants me to inflict pain and torment on her body in as many ways as I can come up with. She doesn’t want to be my girlfriend, maybe she is already in a loving relationship with someone else, all she wants is the sadist in me to do his work on her body, make sure she’s ok after our session and then send her home.

  2. The Girlfriend. This girl would want the whole package, she wants the guy I show to everyone during the day. The kind, gentle guy who has the respect of his peers and is often introduced as “the guy your Mum wants you to settle down with”. But she also wants the sadist, she wants to be broken then put back together over and over again. Giving herself over to the man who has earned her trust.

When you message me, please state which of the two options you are. Or maybe you’re a 3rd option? Let me know.

Please also note, I do not engage with any online only relationships or dynamics. I do not share (not interested in poly), and want to have a non sexual meet up sooner rather than later to see if we click.

Posted Sep 13, 2025, 11:41 AM UTC · locked

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