One of the boys is way too religious

So basically one of the boys (we gonna call him Jay for now) is a Christian and he recently got dumped by his girl so I went to talk to him and he said something about it being god's plan and he not sad about it at all which I respect I mean I probably couldn't show that little emotion if I had what they had but still that can't be healthy like we gotta give this man a heart give bro some emotion I had to get bro to understand that she broke up with him using her own free will and it had nothing to do with god like I'm not trying to make him feel bad I'm just tryna make him understand