Trying to figure out what kind of games the girl I am talking with is playing

I am in the talking stage with a girl, if not substantially dating, though it is complicated because it is like the relationship is progressing though some parts are like totally amiss in terms of our conversation, yet she is like, super involved at the same time. It really makes me to wonder what kind of thoughts and games she is playing, and where to be throughout this time. I do not want to say she really does cross my mind throughout the day, though it is kind of like we are playing games with each other at times, at other times I don't know. I don't know what it could be. It is like on one hand she says its a sure yes, on the other hand she is still playing with the idea. I am still trying to be sure in terms of where to be of us, though there have been mixed signals in terms of a certain part. Maybe I just let things go? I probably should just stay busy, and though this is probably a pretty positive note in terms of us, that is if she sees it, it could really be anything. I like that we get to joke and mess around throughout the day though something tells me to be calm throughout this time and stay work focused, and take care of my stuff, make the most of things, another part wonders what it could be in terms of us that is keeping things slow like this. How can I be there for the relationship throughout this time when it is like all we really play are games currently? Anyways, mid day post. Wishing y'all the best, msg me.

Any ideas or advice are appreciated, thank you.