What are some things you've already had to decide as future parents that you didn't expect??

Just a question for fun!

Here's ours: My baby shower is this weekend so gifts are rolling in. An aunt of my husband's got us a whole bag of books, which we love. But some of them are Christianity forward and my husband and I want to raise our family non-religiously. So we're going to donate them to a new home. :) Just books in general have been interesting; one we plan to donate because the main character in the story does some non consensual kissing. Might seem small, but that's just us.

What things have you had to decide already that you didn't anticipate coming up??