29M - Want to form a lasting connection

Age 26-29

Hi there! I figured that I would try my luck with making a post on reddit, hoping to meet that one best friend because I have a lot of care and love to provide. Life sometimes makes me feel like that lonely, forgotten pringle at the bottom of the can - all crushed up. Although, I will admit, that tends to be the most flavorful one! With that said, I guess I am rather flavorful based on how passionate I am in the friendship!

So who exactly am I?

  • I am a 29 year old guy that is trying to dive deep into the field of neuroscience. I have done neurodevelopment and neurobehavioral research where I was recently published as part of a neuroscience journal!
  • I love to ask questions and learn about others, so that is where the passion kicks in
  • Even though I tend to be a serial overthinking who dwells on a lot of day to day social interactions (did I appear weird when I made that comment? What did I eat yesterday? Does the cat own me? Sooooo many thoughts), I still very much like to spend the time getting to know the other person
  • Would consider myself a bundle that thrives off positive energy, care, and someone who enjoys to provide a lot of affection
  • Love to take on new challenges and growing day to day
  • I am someone who would be invested in you. I want to know what makes you happy, sad, laugh, driven, and passionate in life! You seriously wouldn’t need to worry about me getting bored of you or losing interest

So why should you throw a Pokeball at my noggin’?

  • I am rather easy to get along with. I tend to give off golden retriever type of energy at times lol
  • Looking for something real (as I am assuming you are too). I want to take on our day to day life challenges. Meaning, no games, deceit, lying, or anything bad! Just pure laughter, smiles, fun, and adventure
  • Would love to game with you, listen to music together, or even start a show or movie together, too!
  • I am a very good conversationalist (as you can probably tell by how long this post will be lol). I enjoy keeping the dialogue flowing through the day, every day. Whether it is talking about the good moments, hearing about the bad, sharing our accomplishments with one another, or discussing the details about our lives that not many people know about!

I would love to study your brain. I’m serious! I want to know all about your quirks, personality, and what intrigues you day-to-day!

Now here is the good stuff!

What I cannot stand:

  • One-worded responses (c’mon… We’re better than that!)
  • People who reach out and then get too busy to invest the time and energy into this. I would like for you to be sure you are ready to pursue a long-term friendship!
  • Folks who get bored, tend to jump from person to person. Not into that
  • Those that ghost… Casper is my favorite. I rather him be the only ghost I know about

Okay, I hope I didn’t bore you with that reading! I am sure I am missing a detail here and there but we can use the time of us getting to know each other to dive in deep! If this has piqued your interest, feel free to reach out!

Posted Sep 13, 2025, 10:53 PM UTC

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