Is this moving too fast?

Dating Advice Needed/Given

I just met this girl today and we’ve been texting… things got a little flirty and I’m starting to wonder if it’s too good to be true. Here’s how it went:

Me: “what you tryna do 😏”
Her: “oh okay”
Me: “Because I'm hella bored”
Her:
Me: “what you tryna do 😏”
“anything u want !!”
Me: “hehe anything i want huh 😏 guess that means you’re in trouble. Give me some suggestions first”
Her:
Me: “Give me some suggestions first”
“nope i like listening”
Me: “mhm come on give me an idea”
Her: “anything.”
Me: “hehe okay 😏 i like that too maybe we can take turns listening to each other. How's this I go first then you say something”
Her: “yep!”
Me: “maybe i can give you a nice massage”
Her: “okayyyy”
Me: “Now what would you do to me?”
Her: “make u fuck me !”
Me: “oh really 😏 you sure you can handle me”
Her: “hmm i don’t know we have to find out”

So… I’m wondering. Do you think I’m being catfished, or is this just normal flirty banter?

Posted Sep 13, 2025, 10:54 PM UTC

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