I can’t tell if he isn’t interested or if I’m over thinking, any insight?

Ok so this may sound all over the place because that’s how it feels. I met this guy on hinge about two weeks ago. We got each others snap and number and we’ve been messaging for two weeks. We’re 20 and 21.

The first week or so he was answering quickly, but then it started taking him like 2-3 hours to answer sometimes. He even fell asleep and didn’t answer all night twice. I asked to call a few times over the next few days and he never did. The next day he said he was just chilling I asked if we could call and he said in a little since his friend came back and they had some stuff to set up then it was 3 hours. This was the day before our rescheduled (I cancelled due to remembering a prior engagement) hangout. I got kind of annoyed and joked about him not being a real person since he was avoiding calling. He got upset and said he can’t answer 24/7 because he was setting something up for a band performance (long story but he lives somewhere where people perform music) and it had him really stressed already. I told him I understood, if he’s still interested we’ll hangout tomorrow and if it doesn’t happen it wasn’t meant to. since He told me he still wanted to and we actually called after that. On the call we talked which was better because I think both our tones were way off and it was confusing each other. The rest of It was fun, and we hung out the next day everything went smooth.

He showed me around the house he lives in, we watched some tv, cuddled, talked, he kept staring at me,kissing my skin and stuff, etc. He also introduced me to his friend. I thought he was moving a little fast asking me to hangout at his house and cuddling the first time we met up, but he doesn’t have a “real” job right now so I figured it’s more like a broke 21 year old thing than a you’re not worth a real date thing. I asked him if he was just looking for a hookup (we never had that talk when we matched, I told him it’s fine if he is). He said he’s not looking to sleep around right now, and that he wanted to get to know each other. He’s more experienced than me he’s had a few hookups and slept with like 6 girls,while I’ve slept with 1 guy in a relationship which maybe makes me think he really does just want sex or will be upset if it takes me a few weeks.

He was answering fast until like 3 hours ago and he hasn’t opened my last message. Snapchat says he hasn’t been active but I’m just anxious he’s ghosting me. Right after I started really having a crush on him after meeting up. I know he has a show happening at his house tonight but I’m still anxious, because if he liked me wouldn’t he just answer? Part of me is anxious and wants to delete the message I sent, and the other part thinks it’s possible I’m overthinking and will look crazy if I do that. From men’s perspective he seem like he was just looking for a hookup or like he’s about to ghost me?