How often did/do you and your kids have other kids over?

Long story short, like the title says.

My wife says she had friends over or went to friends houses multiple times a week. My kids do. Multiple times a week. Usually just out of the blue. My wife is amazing but doesn’t plan shit.

I grew up very rurally and only had friends over a few times a year. Never randomly. Ever.

I get I am a far end of the spectrum, but recently I had a realization moment and we got a parasite out of our house that had been with us way too long. Now I am really not liking all the company.

Me problems right? Get over it right? I get it. I really do. But how often do yall have kids over? I know my side is a far end, is my wife’s also?