How can I (22F) have a good first date with the guy (29M) I’ve been talking to for over a month?

I recently started talking to a guy as he slid into my dms. We instantly hit it off and seem to realllyyy like each other. Its been 2 weeks since we started texting and we’ve been texting every single day… We did call over the phone a few times for an hour each but never facetimed. He lives on the east coast and I live on the west coast where I’m still a student and he has a job so it’s not like we can see each other even if we wanted to. But he and I both wanted to see this connection through as we actually seem very compatible so he booked a flight to where I live for the end of September… I do really like him but i’m starting to get worried about a few things. We would be texting for over a month before meeting in real life which I know is genuinely not a good idea. We’ve only sent photos to each other and never facetimed so we’re lowkey both getting scared on how we might look different in real life. Is there a chance this relationship might actually work out? Can the first date be super horrible even though we would be pretty close by the time we meet?

Posted Sep 14, 2025, 12:34 AM UTC

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