Parents tried to corner me about my identity

Y’all. My parents drove across states to confront me about my name change and trans identity. They tried to corner me in a Trader Joe’s parking lot. Then tried to get me to have dinner with them to “discuss” things. I feel so unsafe. Like wtf. My partner was like “no, don’t go alone they’re just going to bully you and try to manipulate you”. So I told them I didn’t want to have dinner with them and they drove back home (9 hours).