Questions For You

Hello! I have started researching law of attraction,manifestation but I have some questions that confuse my mind every time I try to make it make sense.The "They" I am reffering to are people who also try to share their research on these topics. Here are some of them:

They say dont dream small , dream as big as you want but they also say you might not get the exact thing you want but similar. How can you dream big if you know you might not get the exact thing you want?

They say you have to be fine with it or without it while wanting something.If you feel fine with it or without it does it really mean you achieved your dream or goal? It seems like making yourself not want the thing you desire to get it but when you get it it does not mean that much to you.

I know people say just wanting and not doing anything towards your goal is a wrong understanding of manifestation.But in a way you have to let go of trying too much for the thing you want and let the universe show you a way or get you your desire.This is different than anything we were thought by everyone.Im not saying just because it is a different opinion it is not true but it also means not constantly working towards your goals and trying to plan,figure it out.Seems kind of untrue to me.

If you have to feel the emotions before it happens, how did some of the people who suffered all their lives turn their lives around? We are probably all sure that they were not feeling any kind of a good feeling while they were suffering in any type of way. It seems like they hardworked all their life to turn their lives around and as I said this is kind of a contrary opinion for manifestation.

If your emotions like joy,peace etc. have that much effect on creating our reality and our lives, are medication and hypnosis cheat codes to life? It should work if you think about what you want and use medication and hypnosis to constantly feel good about it.

Please only answer these questions if you know the answer and are also researching loa,manifestation.

Thanks!