Decision time

I’m at a breaking point. I’m in financial trouble due to a prior business and how I allowed my wife to manage our money. I let it happen for too long not wanting a fight. If I woulda left back then idk where I’d be now. There was deceit, lying and almost financial abuse. Now my checks and banks are being garnished and I’m at the end of my rope.

I could either go into chapter 13 together or split and file chapter 7 and get a reset.

She admits all wrongs and doesn’t seem to be falling into any old habits, but how do I get back the trust I lost? I don’t feel the same way, will it come back? Idk what to do. The last 2 weeks I’ve wanted to leave and now after a talk I’m still here but feeling like I’m hanging on by a thread.