Double standars in acotar

ACOTAR AND CC SPOILERS!! Disclaimer: this isn't a hate post against any character.

• Feyre wasn't eating because of her trauma, but the inner circle decided to blame Tamlin. Later on, in ACOWAR when Elain is not eating because of her trauma the only one who actually tried to help her is Nesta. Rhysand can't even stand bear near them and the rest of the IC is busy enough to not help. • Tamlin locked Feyre in his house. It was a bad decision, yes, and the IC blamed him, but, when Feyre locked Nesta in the house of Wind, the IC agreed that it was to help her. • In ACOWAR, Feyre talked with the suriel, anyone knows it, and Rhysand just said that she had free will but preferd to knew what she was doing. But, in CC3 when Nesta saves worlds Rhysand thread her and tried to punished her. • The IC hates the court of nightmares and all the fae related to it because of what they done to Morrigan. But in ACOSF, when Nesta is dealing with her trauma, Mor said to Cassian that they would be better if they send Nesta to the court of nightmares. • In ACOFAS, Feyre makes fun of Lucien because of his friendship group with Vassa and Julian, but she doesn't allow anyone to talk about the IC. She can find a happy family but Lucien can't??? • Nesta and Elain are both guilty for letting Feyre hunt in the forest and etc. But Rhysand can stand Elain, but he can not stand Nesta because she has her owns opinions (which are not the same as his) • In ACOTAR 3.5 Cassian talks with Rhysand about the mating bond. He says that he's jealous about what Feyre and Rhys have, but then, in CC3 he doesn't defend Nesta when Rhysand threat her. Feysand tied their lives to die togheter but Cassian can't even defend his mate??? • Is wellknown that Rhys changed the rules in the night court: a woman fae can deny the mating bond, but, in the bonus chapter of ACOSF he tells Azriel to stay away from Elain even when in also wellknown that she doesn't want Lucien. So, Rhysand is feminist anymore when rejecting a mating bond interfers with his political alliances???

Disclaimer 2.0: english isn't my first language, sorry if I made a mistake.

Disclaimer 3.0: I would love to discuss about this!!!!