I wanna smash something so bad

This dude who I thought was my frnd and was pretty understanding of my sexuality just said I should give him a try and gave the example of "lesbian "Jojo Siwa . Freaking Jojo Siwa . This girl has damaged the lesbian community so much . Fck her to infinity . And this is not the first guy to say such stuff but it was easier to ignore but this guy giving an example of a stupid public figure as an explanation makes me want to scream. This has happened almost a week ago but evn now it's still making me so furious whenever I think about it . Suddenly men are pro gender fluid when it comes to lesbians . Fck them and fck Jojo Siwa and all the women like her