Hooked up with someone and found out she talked about everything on TikTok… what do I do?

I went out with a girl on a first date and then we went out the following weekend which led to us hooking up/sharing an intimate night. I had told a friend about her and he just so happened to come across her TikTok, and we found that she had been making TikToks about me the entire week. Screenshots of our conversations and recaps of our dates at first, but then she began speaking explicitly about our sexual interaction (how many times & things I was saying) and comparing me to past sexual partners (“size”, height, attractiveness, etc). All to the tune of millions of views and hundreds of comments. Once I found out I called her and cut it off, & she deleted most of the videos.

Although the stuff she was saying wasnt overwhelmingly negative or anything, I’m feeling super insecure here plus a lot trust issues. Has anyone gone through anything similar? Is this what dating in 2025 is like?? I hate being spoke about this way and seeing comments about me made me so uncomfortable.

Posted Sep 25, 2025, 7:11 AM UTC

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