36 [M4F] #California - Seeking intense Long Term connection with a highly possessive and manipulative partner who craves to be constantly obsessed over

I am an introverted, educated, decent looking, and presentable white male. Slim-fit. 5'11" 150lb. I'm seeking a somewhat dominant partner that can enjoy a very intense dynamic (both in kink and non kink) that centers around you being my complete priority. A high maintenance partner that craves and needs constant attention; to heavily encourage an obsession of you; and encourage an intense sensual addiction to you that is impossible to satisfy.

It might seem weird, but I crave to have a clingy, selfish, and possessive partner. I want you to blow up my phone and randomly demand information..to know where I am or who im with, and what im doing. To go through my phone whenever you want and keep me from having any control over it when you are around me. I want you to actively crave attention and encourage me to give in to you as much and as often as possible. More than im even capable of giving. To enjoy convincing me to stop whatever i'm doing to give it to you: to develop a chemistry with playful demands and sexualized games between us.. to be as needy and as clingy as your heart desires, to the point that you become a complete priority over my social life.

I actually have an isolation kink. For my partner to be manipulative, to use love and sex to keep me from going out and encourage me to be weak to my compulsive need for you instead. If I have plans, to convince me to blow off my plans or even convince me to stay home instead. Sexual sabotage and being teased into ruining my plans is a huge kink of mine. If im about to leave, to play dress up and convince me to stay as you hold my crotch and moan in my ear until I give in. To encourage and train my compulsive male weakness to prioritize you. Make a deal with me to stay home, or completely sabotage my plans by having rituals of you wearing skimpy outfits around me and tease me into spending hours fondling and admiring your legs instead of anything else, or to have me goon to you for long periods of time even as you ignore me and read a book, or watch a show, or doomscroll on your phone. I even imagine planning to go see a movie with friends but you come into the room wearing the shortest little skirt and push me to sit down, get on my lap, kiss me as you get lay me down on my back so you can all the more easily sit on my face and grind and bounce on my lips until the movie is over. Or to even encourage intense gooning to you while you go through my phone to see what ive been doing on it and as I pamper and make out with your pussy.

I enjoy long sessions of foreplay and intense adoration. Even if I want to go out, or am out, to convince me to stop what I'm doing and go home instead because my obsessive and addictive need for you is more important. Your pussy's needs are more important, and your pussy should always be a complete priority.

There is something so intense about constantly engaging in multi hour long and seemingly endless foreplay, having the most sexually tense experiences regardless of how softcore our interactions actually are. Im not in a hurry for intercourse. I, in fact, find it to be even more intense with the longer we prolong it. To have a dynamic that we can constantly build and develop, creating intricate rules and games, rituals, situational cues, building upon eachother's ideas and fantasies to create even more sexually and emotionally intense tension, and creating a synergy within a mutually beneficial relationship.

We can both be dominant and submissive to eachother in our own ways. The only power I really want in our dynamic is to be able to choose and buy outfits and lingerie for you, to collect them for you to wear for me when at home or as you manipulate me. To let me spend hours admiring and adoring you, gooning to you in whatever canvass of fabric that I pick out for your beauty. I need you to be as possessive and as selfish as you want. Perhaps it could simply be a part of our dynamic, that i am able to dress you however i want, so you can keep me as maliable and weak to you as possible, to keep me from going out, to encourage my obsession and adoration of you, to keep me gooning for you even longer, to make you my priority... and you can control everything else. Where I can go, who I can hang out with, or to just perpetually keep me home as you constantly encourage my little addiction. You choose whatever tv show or movie you want, and I focus on your pussy in return. I admit even having incredibly intense fantasies of a partner making me give up entertainment entirely for her, and replacing it with videos and audios of her instead. (I have so many intense ideas I'd like to share with the right person)

I do crave consistant playfully manipulative sabotage and control over my social life, so that you will be a priority over everything else. I want someone who will enjoy developing a chemistry and learning what makes me tick so she will always know how to make me choose her over everything else. All while I also learn the intricacies of your desires, that we can build a world for eachother that constantly caters to our most intense fantasies within our established boundaries.

I would really want to become obsessed and desperate for you.... for my absolute need to constantly adore you and be intimate with you, and for this to become the most important part of my life. I want to be the worst addict for you. Obsessed and hopeless without you. I'd want you to become my priority to the point that I'd give up time with friends or family to be with you instead. I crave a relationship so engulfed in obsessive passion and sexual intensity that both of us will be unable to escape our desirous addiction for more. To be lost in this world of fantasy, and roleplay, and lust crazed love that we perpetually explore.

The ideal person is someone who craves constant attention.. who is never sexually satisfied... even being or manipulatively pretending to be easily jealous can make our dynamic more intense; who enjoys mind games, and is even interested in hypnosis or psychological conditioning ; who craves control and enjoys the idea of molding a male to be weaker for her. Someone who would truly enjoy using love, sensuality, and the desire to cum, to pry away deeper into a male psyche and encourage intense obsession and weakness for her; to ever more increase my dependency, necessity, desire, and sexual addiction for you while also making it nearly impossible to function without you. To really enjoy becoming the center of my life and enjoy being the center of my entire world.