[WeWantOut] 20TF 21TM Saudi arabia, USA -> Portugal

[This post speaks of abuse hence the tag]

As the title says im a 20 year old closeted trans atheist female from saudi arabia who graduated highschool, and desire to move out to escape a horrid abusive household. My boyfriend a trans male in america wants to leave his awful abusive household as well.

we've spent a majority of these 20 years trying to survive. i have no work experience beyond being a youtube editor and programming game bots in python and making simple 3d and 2d designs and code and math systems for simple roblox games that ive never released due to anxiety.

whilst he was stuck in fastfood hell for a couple of years

ive been trying to catch up on the 20 years ive wasted and start developing my sets of skills
[2d 3d programming python automation] and advertising them on fiver and making a social media presence throwing all the eggs at the wall and see what sticks.

im in my 2nd year in university for graphic design, 2 years until i finish it although im hoping to be able to leave before then

trying to figure out the country i should move to, to begin the immigration process so i can learn their culture and language to completion but the issue is.
every country i look at, i research and find either anti immigration issues or highly expensive or dangerous. Ive tried researching through the subreddit and have found most posts here have the replies tell them that the place of their desiring has one or more of those issues. ive tried looking into germany, poland, spain, vietnam, and a few others and thus far the only plausible place ive found is portugal and i have been doing research on it but i just wanted to double check with the more knowledgeable more experienced people here.

i wanted to ask, whats a place that i should look into for me and my s/o with the absolute bare minimum.
we are both introverts that are likely to go out twice a month or less. so we're truly just seeking safety and affordable rent and basic living as we're able to live off of cheap food as well.

We're looking for cheap and safe. Thank you so much for reading and i wish all of you luck :)