23 [M4A] CA is that normal to wanna kms??

I’m still 23 and I’m sooo addicted to porn like it almost harm my life, my relationship with ppl and social life. At first I thought all are under my control but when things got serious, the desire devoured me and started to goon so much without even realizing it! Is that happening to y’all too? To prevent for not happening it, I did some tribute sessions but it didn’t come in handy like just fake ppl are there making me worse. I dun know how to relapse my desire or how to control it. I am into being submissive but there were no one giving me a chance. Idk yalll. Maybe I can get help from yallll?? Pls lemme know how you dealing with it and if possible, I want you help by leading me.