Aries friend

I’m a girl Scorpio sun and rising I have been friend with a Aries friend since I was 14 I’m 23 now we have been through a lot good and bad I feel always she is the most important person in my life she has a strong impactful on me she is smart , independent and know how to deal with everything person I feel like I’m so attached to her even we are not seeing each other a lot cuz of college and work but I usually think about her and want to tell her everything going on my life and I really want to go back to the days where we do everything with each other it make me feel bad cuz I’m feeling like I’m attached and obsessed should I keep living like this or I should trying to deattach from her cuz cutting her of now without explanation isn’t good