Please help incel out

Hi, im a 26 year old man, and I must be honest I have been out the dating game for a lil while now. I have little to no clue what adult dating is meant to be like. I have been seeing a girl for two and half months now, I like her so I asked what she thinks of me and where she thinks this is heading. Her answer was it's far to early to know and two and a half months is so short to get to know someone. I was a little bit surprised cause I feel like I know but again I'm pretty clueless to this stuff. Also another thing that caught me off gaurd is that when I asked her if she thinks I'm attractive her answer was a little odd, first time she said I don't typically find guys like you attractive. 2nd time I asked she said your eyes are a little to big for my liking, by this she means my eyes are too white (she's Chinese and I'm half Japanese/British). Is it normal to date people you don't find attractive? I'm just a little confused is all this normal ?