Everyone says it should be “easy” for me but I’m still single
I just need to vent a little. I’m 6'1, tall and dark, decent build, people tell me I look good and I’ve put effort into keeping my Insta aesthetic clean. I’m not some awkward guy either.I can hold conversations, make people laugh, and I’ve got a solid circle of friends.
Yet somehow, I still don’t have a girlfriend. Every time I mention it, people around me are like “Bro, it must be so easy for you” or “Girls must be sliding into your DMs”. But no, that’s not my reality. I get likes, I get the “you look good” comments, but it never turns into something real.
It honestly messes with my head because I keep asking myself what I’m doing wrong. Am I giving off the wrong vibe? Do I come across as not interested? Or is it just bad luck? I don’t want to force anything or become desperate, but it gets frustrating when everyone assumes I’ve got it all figured out while I’m low-key sitting here confused as hell.
Idk, just needed to rant.
Posted Sep 28, 2025, 1:31 PM UTC