I am wondering if I'm wrong for saying something

So I have been with the same woman since before I went away. So to me we have been together for over 3 years. But I have only been invited to one family gathering for mother's day. She has never asked me to hang out with her friends. Actually she mentioned yesterday that I. A couple of days she has a wedding to go to. Take a guess I wasn't invited to that either. But I said something this time that it's bothering me that I feel like she is ashamed of me. So my question am I wrong for telling her " that I don't like it and if I couldn't bring her some where I wouldn't be going."