For those who worked hard....

You hit the gym

you developed great hobbies

you hike, you dance, you sing, you play instruments, you paint, you write, you do social work

you learned how to dress like a model

you went to public places

you started talking to interesting people

you bought expensive perfume

you have a nice job and a degree

...

Congratulations! Now you have 10% of the flirting power that "Amanda, 21 years old. Unfinshed high school, working as a cashier in a market. Hobbies: netflix and chill. I love to travel and laugh with me friends".

Oh, forget it. She ghosted on you.