Overwhelmed Ignorant Bride

context: First in the Family (my generation) and friend group na magbalak magpakasal sa Church.

First time namin mag ocular ng mga churches today!! I didn’t expect na di pala siya ganun kamura. 😭😬 I was aware na mahal magpakasal in general, and sa tagaytay pa. What I didn’t expect is nasa 30k+ pala churches? Then you still have to pay for the styling na worth 30-50k(please correct me if I’m wrong para ma set expectations ko)

Now lang nag sink in sakin na ang mahal pala talaga magpakasal. I feel so shy and stupid when I assumed na ang church wedding ay 25k lang all included na 😭😩 Idk why ako ganito. Ok wala lang. sharing my frustrations lang. Ano pa ba ibang common knowledge na hindi ko alam? 🤷‍♀️ Mas makakamura ba if iisa lang venue for Garden wedding and reception? Or is it the same(sa church) since required din styling sa Garden ceremony?