I'm so confused about dating and marriage in our country

The process of finding a woman or getting to know a woman and after it the process of marriage are very confusing to me because both sides of the spectrum males and females describes the whole thing differently than each other especially from a financial prespective And because I lack the experience in dating became I've never been out with a woman before for religious purposes I've always had so many questions especially for women side For exemple As a woman how do expect a guy to approach you in public respectfully , how do you deal with it and do you think it's an appropriate way to approach you ? What do you think is the reasonable age gap/difference between you and your man and do you think it's normal ? And How should the man's financial state be for you to take the relationship seriously ? And also is education crucial for you , is it necessary for him to speak English and French and have higher education ? I know I'm asking so many questions but I think this would help close the gap between both sides and make it easier for us to get along in the long run Especially for confused men like me to understand how things work for women