AITA for not wanting my grandmother to return to visit the country where I live?

My grandmother is really annoying. She always asks stupid questions, constantly texts me or calls me. Whenever I return to my birth country my grandmother always moves my things and she doesn't seem to get when we tell her to stop. 4 months ago I was told my mother was dying (who died on early July) she went to see my mother and couldn't stop being her annoying self even when my mother needed peace. During her visit I woke up to her angrily complaining about how messy my living room was. And immediately had me help her. I had literally just woken up and I already had to do chores. What a good way to start the day (sarcastically of course). She also always asked me every 2 days if I had plans, constantly wanted me to take her credit card to buy things. Even after my mother died she couldn't stop being annoying. I was literally grieving only to deal with my annoying grandmother. For example once I woke up to her annoying me about going to buy things and got angry I couldn't find something she wanted to buy for me. When she finally returned to my birth country I was actually happy she was finally gone. FInally mostly peace after 2 months. I know this might make me sound cruel but part of me doesn't want her to return. And by the way even my father finds her annoying sometimes and even lost his temper with her during her visit. Also part of me is happy my mother doesn't have to deal with her ever again

Posted Sep 29, 2025, 10:47 AM UTC

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