Who is a crossdresser allowed to love?

I’m asking seriously, because it’s something many people think about but rarely say out loud.

• You who live as crossdressers – are you attracted to women?
• Why does everyone assume crossdressers can only love men?
• Is it really that disturbing if someone in women’s clothes is into women?
• Why is it taboo for a CD to desire women while dressed as one?
• Do feminine clothes automatically make someone gay? Or is that just society’s assumption?
• Why don’t we talk about the fact that many crossdressers are straight?

And finally: Which group do you belong to? (You don’t have to answer, but I’d love to hear how people see this from the inside.)