39 [M4F] #SFBayArea - Married and looking for birthday hookup

My 40th birthday is in a couple weeks, I'll e in a hotel in the East Bay for the next couple weeks. Would love to meet up and have some fun.

I am married, don't judge, lol. I haven't had sex with my wife in almost a year now and I dont think that's going to change any time soon. Lot's of pent up energy here waiting to get out.

6'3 180lbs WM, 7.75". I love to please and make sure that my partner is fully satisfied first. I ave had a couple reddit hookups before, one was close to my birthday a couple years ago.

I can travel or host here in the hotel