I(M22) am going to ask my gf(F24) to make me falls in love with her again

I know the title makes me seem like a monster but I need to give a lot of context. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 8 months. At the start of the relationship I made it clear that physical affection is my love language, now let me tell you our current situation:

1. We never make out. The last time we made out for more than 5 minutes was 2-3 months in the relationship, she said at the time that she didn't want it to transition to intimate thing so I reassured her, she made an effort for a few weeks but now if we make out for more than 30 seconds she tells that she wants to do something else. When confronted she tells me that it makes her sleepy to lie down. So yeah basically Pokemon is more enjoyable than making out with me, as you can imagine I feel great about that.

2. Rules are being broken and changed. Early in the relationship she told me that when we are over at her place she doesn't want me to satisfy myself if she is tired or unwilling cause then she feels likes she can't satisfy me. Last week she admitted to masturbating in the bathroom cause she had an urge and didn't have the energy to be satisfied by me. Yesterday she told me that if we really have an urge we should let each other do it if the other person isn't available (I have made it clear that no matter what I am always willing to do her and always have) so basically it's if she's tired and can't do me or she's tired and can't do herself with me. (She likes rubbing herself on me while I finger her and it takes a lot of energy)

3. Things said early are not being respected. Her ex used to use her to get himself off and not satisfy her, she made it clear that she hates that and would never do that. 2/3 times after doing her she will fall asleep telling me that she will do me later, I don't know about you guys but I don't stay in the mood for that long and it isn't exactly a switch I can pool. When I told her about what she had told she said that she has a lower sex drive and that I can sacrifice my part sometimes since she can't have hers as often.

4. No sex. 8 months without sex, she is not a virgin, she is not fresh off a toxic relationship or anything, she has had sex with every ex and earlier, at 5 months she dropped the news that she wants to wait to have sex with me. Let's look at her excuses: "It creates irritations" so the routine with every other ex didn't? "It takes a lot of time and I want to enjoy my weekend" she sleeps on average 32 hours ok weekdays cause she has to wake up at 7:00 (8:00 if online) and plays videogames from 21:00-1:00+ cause she needs them for her mental health (I play with her but now with my work too I won't stay as late now). "I enjoy other stuff more" thanks for telling that would have meant never sex in the very start (never said anything). "You said that sex means love and closeness to you so it changed my perspective" doesn't that contradict each one of the previous points? I am not gonna force her to do it, I would never, but I want that physical closeness with my partner and yes sex is important for me which I made clear at the start.

5. Things changed from the start. She always gets offended when I say this cause she says that her exes said it too. In the first few months she used to pull me into her room to make out, ask me to do her cause making out turned her on and saying she wanted me before getting on top of me before rubbing herself on me. Now she doesn't wanna make out and never makes me feel like she is turned on cause of me, just urged.

When I bring all this up to her, if she doesn't wanna accept it I'll try to get her best friend in on it too since they 100% agree with me. If not, well I'll guess I'll be single.