Any bi-alpha males here? Looking for regular fun, more than just random hookups

I recently connected with a bi guy and really fell for his personality, humour, and open-mindedness — but it ended quickly after I think I crossed his boundary.

It opened my mind to how much I enjoy this kind of connection, and now I’d love to find something similar. I’m not necessarily looking for a full-on relationship — just something more than a one-off hookup: I’m a great cook, I would love to cook for you, maybe the occasional trip, regular meetups when we’re both free, and a bit of playful kink ( soft S&M ) if we click.

I don’t mind being your secret if that’s what you need — I just want mutual respect and honesty about what we both want.

For bi-alpha guys who’ve had this kind of setup — where did you find it? Dating apps? Reddit? Somewhere else?

DMs welcome if you want to share your experience or tips.