30 [M4F] - Looking to chat with someone about orgasm or bladder control stories

Feeling a like sparking up a conversation with someone new and exciting today, thought maybe this would be a good way to do it.

Have you ever let someone control when you could orgasm? Did you control someone else's orgasm? Have you ever let someone control when you could pee? Have you ever been unable to masturbate or pee due to some other reason and gone crazy? Have you been walked in on while masturbating? Do you have anything related to these topics that you are embarrassed to share?

I'd love to find some longer term chat partners to discuss questions like these. I would also love to chat about how often we masturbate and how we go about that. I enjoy dynamics where you a slightly embarrassed about the topic. I am respectful of your boundaries and won't push you to share things you don't want to. I also have plenty of stories to share in return of course :p

My other kinks include public play, wet spots, girls masturbating, and getting girls off (honestly anything that turns you on).

My limits are scat, gore, and pain.

A bit about me: I'm an engineer (obviously), I'm poly, with 2 long term girlfriends. I enjoy playing volleyball, pickleball, and the occasional disc golf round. I spend my free time playing videogames and have quite a large board game collection. I am passionate about space, history, everyday news, and reproductive rights.

Would love to hear from you!