Is it normal for men to like this thing?

WARNING: A little SPG and a little long read.

Hi, so just a little context. I'm F28 year old just got out of a serious relationship 8 months ago. I have never been the type of girl who's into hook up culture. But since I just got out of a serious relationship I decided to maybe at least go out of my comfort zone.

I started using a dating app. Matched with this guy. He's nice and all. Just like a day of texting back and fort we decided to do a phone call that ends up to him asking me to have dinner with him at that same day. I was at first hesitant because hindi talaga ako sanay sa biglaang aya especially with a stranger. But he insisted to pick me up at my place and promised to drop me off as well. Sooo I said yes.

On the phone call we talked a little bit about life and future plans. He seems to be the guy that really wanted to start a family already and stuff so I was like okay cool. Means he "might" be a good decent guy.

Evening came and he picked me up at my place. He was nice, even opening up the car door for me. During the drive to the restaurant he then asked me what's my love language is. I answered quality time and words of affirmation. Asked him the same question and he said quality time and physical touch. I was nodding along as I'm agreeing to him. Until he said that he loves receiving A LOT of physical touch. Red flag.

Fast forward, we had dinner and went back to his car. We talked for a little bit and then he asked me if he could kiss me. I was again hesitant but then said sure. We kissed and I was so shocked. It wasn't just a quick smack on the lips. Once our lips touched he held my head in place and started doing it wildly. With the tongue and everything. I was shocked and really just wanted to go home after that. But he said that he wanted to drive around a bit coz he's enjoying our time together. His hand was on my thigh at this point.

Fast forward x2. 😂 We hooked up in his car. I gave him a helping hand. Iykyk. But sobrang tagal ng finish product. He said that I had to do more. I declined because I don't like it at all. But then he said he wants me to suck his nippies. I was like what? That was new to me. He then added that he wants me to imagine that he's a girl while I'm doing it. He wants me to massage his chest while sucking. 🙈 He's on the chubby side so he got the chest for it. After awhile, we got the finish product from him. And I was left dumbfounded and traumatized? I would go into more details but this is already too long

Sooo is it normal? For men to want to be treated like a woman during those kind of situation? I am so confused. If someone can enlighten me, I'd really appreciate it. Thank you