Maybe im just ugly

Ive always been a bigger girl. Not huge, but normally 200-220lbs. So growing up i didnt get alot of attention from guys because being heavier wasnt really accepted then like it is now. Until my late teens and early 20s when I slimmed down and had a little glow up. Which is when I met my husband. Now 13 years later and he doesn't love me anymore and doesn't find me attractive. (I gained weight through pregnancy and am about 220lbs again).

My point is, I still dont really get approached or hit on by men. Am I really just that ugly? That unlovable? How will anyone ever love me again if im not attractive anymore? Will men ever approach me? Being in a relationship through my 20s, no one really hit on me because in our small town most people knew I had a large 6'2 tattooed husband that you prolly shouldn't fuck with. Now that I don't have that security, I still dont feel admired by men anywhere. Im afraid ill grow up an ugly old lonely hag.